More Then I Dared to Ask {Personal}

he never ever saw it coming at all,
he never saw it coming at all
regina spektor | hero
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Growing up I was a bit of a know-it-all goody-two-shoes.
I thought I was the ideal good girl. 
A's in school, no "trouble" at all, wanted to live with mom + dad until I got married at 20.
(Maaaaaybe 19.)
I was a brat ;)

(Not saying that all girls who want that are brats,
just so happened that my heart and attitude about it was very "Aren't I sooOoo good?")

God has taught me a lot the last few years.
I'm know I'm still a brat at heart.
But I honestly don't think about that so much.
There's no beating myself or gnashing of teeth,
because God has shown me in dazzling colors how good He is.
He is sooOoo good.

In my plans of old, I would have never dreamed of living on my own.
But God had good plans for me and last year I moved into an apartment on my own.


This little house has become my friend.
It really, really has.
I've never felt like this in a home
(maybe because of my big family, there was never too much personal space)
but I feel like the walls "know" me.
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I know, I know, I know... sounds dumb.
Try not to vomit in your mouth.
It's true though.
As my life has just gone so shockingly different then I thought it would,
my home has been a little haven.
It had very humble beginnings.
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As late summer turned into fall I geared up for my first Thanksgiving "by myself."
(my siblings flew up to celebrate with me.)





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I've loved having family, friends and little kids come to my home.
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Many nights I would get in from the day and sit on my couch,
drinking water,
listening to cars drive by,
watching the sky melt into night.
It made me feel safe.
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Winter called for my first Christmas Tree.
That baby was up a good seven weeks!
I would always make sure to turn the lights on before I left,
so when I came home there would be that magical Christmas glow :D
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This winter was a bit of an emotionally hard one for me.
Sometimes you just realize a lot about yourself and it's hard.
It's hard to know that we can hurt people, it's hard to be hurt by people,
it's hard to grow up and not live in la-la-land.
It's hard to have regret, but it's sweet to be forgiven.
It's hard to cry tears, but it's so sweet to see them redeemed.
I had a lot of alone time being snowed into this apartment,
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An incredible "perk" this winter was my basketball team.
We had a handful of pizza parties over at my place, and boy did my neighbors hate it ;)
The squealy, excitable, funny girls blessed me so much.
It was so fun when they would "oooo!" and "oh my gosh I want to live here!" when they visited.
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Thankfully winter always turns to spring,
and somehow the physical surroundings always lend to an emotional transition too.
Hope, ideas, creativity, excitement!
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(ahem. excuse the picture quality, but this is me standing on my friends shoulders trying to climb into my apartment after I locked myself out.  I HATE LOCKS.)
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Weekly for almost a full year my dear small group from church met at my house.
We'd spend hours eating, talking about God + life, playing games and making memories.
I would love it when I'd go to bed and people would still be out talking.
I already miss it and it's barely ended :D
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Freshly motivated and alive, spring started strong.
Social activities, decorating, work, travel plans... Oh boy it was fun!
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I am so grateful for every single person who has come to my house.
I really am.  My mind floods with memories of visitors.
With helpers.
With baked-goods-deliverers.
With friends.
With concerned neighbors (my fire alarm is needy, one could say.)
With family.
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Shortly after these pictures were taken, my life headed down a deliciously sweet time.
Summer of 2011 is one I'll never forget.
It's been my favorite summer of my life.
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I go to sleep content, and wake up smiling. 
My little house has been a part of that.
It's been a part of my growing up, it's been a part of my mess, it's been a part of the beautiful.
It's been such a physical representation of what has gone on inside me.
I will forever love this little oddly shaped home of mine.
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But it's time to go.
It's time for a new home, with a new "family."
(I canNOT wait to live with people again!!!! ajakjasjakjaskja!!!! YAY!)
As much as I loved living here, and inviting friends over, I'm ready to have "home" include permanent and dear  residents.  I don't just want "room mates."
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And God worked it out perfectly - literally down to the hour - that I could move in with my favorite Klesses.Photobucket
It's a story, I think, worth reading :D 


- Back in 2007 after I graduated highschool, these newlyweds (for one year!) became my small group leaders.
We met in their rented basement apartment with our group, and always teased them about having children.
- Through 2008 and 2009 I learned more and more about them through their open-ness, love of Adams-Morgan pizza, kind texts, prayers, tough love, photography, heart ache, looooots of laughs (mostly thanks to Dre) and time.
Some of the biggest "desires of their heart" included
a career in the FAA for Dre (not just "jobs"), a home of their own and children.
- In 2010, right after my family moved away to Florida, the Klesses left for Oklahoma.
Dre, after literally years of waiting, had been accepted into the FAA.
He needed to train in Oklahoma for about 5 months.
- After they left, I moved into my apartment on August 21, 2010.
- Between 2007 and 2010 Becca + Dre had become such sweet and important friends in my life.
I honestly had no idea how much I'd need them, or that I had room for more "best friends."
But God worked it out :D
- Now, a year later, Becca + Dre own their own home about five minutes from my current house,
Dre has a full-time job with the FAA,
and Becca is pregnant with a baby boy due in Decemeber.
AND they just so happen to have an extra bedroom + empty basement for a certain someone ;)
So many prayers answered in that last sentence. So so so many.
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The cool thing was that they had put an offer on their house this past winter,
BEFORE Becca was preggo,
but for whatever reason the house wasn't accepted/confirmed with bank stuff until July 1, 2011,
AFTER Becs was a few months along.
July 1, 2011 happened to be the deadline I had with my apartment building to re-new my year lease.
If Dre and Becca didn't get the house, I was gonna stay.
Cause I love my apartment.
If they did get the house, I was gonna move.
Cause I love them.
And at 2:00 pm on July 1 I got a text from Becca "Go down to your leasing office! We got the house!"
I ran down their lickety-split,
officially told them I was leaving, with about three hours to spare ;)
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So this weekend "my apartment" will no longer be "mine."
And I'll be the new addition in the Kless household, eagerly awaiting their real new addition.
I'm excited about baby showers, baby home-welcomes, days of working with a friend, meals,
movie nights, stinky diapers and anything else that comes along the way :D

My quote for this year has been one from Martin Luther:

"All who call on God in true faith, 
earnestly from the heart, will certainly be heard,
and will receive what they have asked and desired
although not in the hour or in the measure, 
or the very thing which they ask. 

Yet they will obtain something greater
 and more glorious than they had dared to ask.

That is how I'd describe my life right now:
more glorious then I dared to ask.

I've made mistakes, I've worked hard, I've not gotten things I've wanted, I've lost things I love,
but God in His kindness has only poured out more.
And it's been perfect.
He is sooOooo good!






Comments

  1. true story of me reading your blog last week:
    me talking to Brandon: "Kristen's moving out of her apartment! I wonder where she's moving to."

    Brandon: *inserts some common sense pontification about leases being up and not wanting to be tied to a lease in case of 'life changes'*

    me... goes back to thinking.
    'I hope she moves in with the Klesses.' :D

    lol they're like my favorite people that I've never met. :P your love for them shines.

    And I love your writing style. It's a treat--like settling down with a nice bowl of ice cream ;)-- every time something from you pops up on my Google Reader. :)

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  2. I totally agree with Naomi, I love reading your posts. And I am so grateful to God that he provided a wonderful home for you. :D

    Aaaand I'm glad I got to spend three days in that apartment. It was lovely. Just saying. :)

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  3. wait. you're moving?!

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  4. aw! hooray! At least i had time in your place, with brides watching me sleep.

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  5. wait. you're moving?!

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  6. That's so so sweet Kristen! I really love to see how, that little adorable one bedroom apparentment was used in such a big way to impact you & now others who are reading you're blog right now! And thank you for still having the faith to preach the gospel on you're blog! Awesome.

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  7. I would just like to say that due to my job and the people I work with, I'm pissed off a good majority of the week... Except today :) your posts are so uplifting and always put a smile on my face! Thank you! Can't wait to see you again!

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  8. Congrats on the upcoming move, Kristen! I hope you enjoy "your" new home (and take lots of interesting photos there too). :)

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  9. 1. Wow. What a few years. ;-) And God's timing is so perfect and "good." We can't wait to have you in our little home.
    and 2. I just realized that our outfits are all coordinating at the beach in FL. I'm wearing yellow and that teal-white striped thing and you're wearing yellow (Target? :-P) and Dre's wearing a tealish shirt. We're cool.
    annnnd 3. Sweet.

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  10. I really enjoy reading your blog--you're a really amazing writer. Oh, and that little house ah-dorable :)
    xoxo
    Simi

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  11. Congratulations, Kristen!

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  12. Thats awesome Kristen!

    Hope all goes well with the move. And hey, when Becca's new baby boy arrives, I bet'cha you'll be a big help!

    -Katie

    P.S (You should so think up a nickname for the baby to display on the internet-yeah, that would be cool!

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  13. AHHH!! so great! :) Congrats on the up and up and it;ll be soooo great to live with people again! I just had the same transition happen and it makes me happy to possibly come home to someone and just chat and be. :) If I were there i'd help you move but since I'm not, I'll just supervise and encourage!! You can do it! No , put that over there actually. The big box goes against the wall... not that wall, my bad. ;)

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